PAS Seminar Session 13 - Case Studies Part 2

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 Did he finish college: Cant figure out major? Grad school uncertain?
   College: 2 years biology major. Changed to philosophy.
      Graduated almost double major.
   Took a grand tour. 
   Only boy of 4 kids. Youngest. Family loved. 
     Grandmother doted on him- well to do - supported his traveling.
   Back at college area bumped into old girlfriend - started dating.
     Then lived together. She had job, he did not.
     He spent time with brother-in-law in carpentry. Did that for 2 years.
   Idea to make money designing houses. But did not want to stay carpenter
     and was not getting design work.
   What do you want to do? "Make a lot of money." 
   So is utilizing A+ and Rc and utilizing what he learned- brother in law
     put in charge of  project.
   Real estate market went down.

   Now age 29- consultant to people re-doing old buildings.

   Reading all about this type of work - E+ proving can be intellectual.

What kinds of stress: sedentary kinds of things. 
   DSY might come up if not a little down.
   So maybe a little pro-active.
   Being people deprived is very stressful - E+ and A+.
   Being in one place stressful. (not married because he wants to move around)
     Maybe he thinks he can A+ charm her into marriage with wanting to
       travel.
   Learned sensitivity - but high "C" will bulldog a conclusion over the
      Rc - not intuitively aware of others' pain and read between lines.
      If a little lower "C", maybe easier to get along with.
      So rigid it telling people right way to do it but A+ so forgiven
   E+o needs affirmation of other people. Some need to nurture others.
     But stress: e.g. drink - sing with the gang and a little more relaxed
       (back off the c+ on Rcc+) no alcoholic remorse - had a good time and
       so did everyone else. Maybe a moralistic quality with Rcc+.

Still does not know what he wants to when he grows up. But enough skill
  to mostly do things pretty well.

Landscape architect: thought of it. But from his social background, that
   is more of a servant, not a professional.

Question:
Asian cultures with emphasis on beauty and presentation.
If A behavior is "learned" - is attractiveness really separate.

Chinese IRU culture Japanese ERA. Physical attractiveness just one aspect of
   social stimulus.
Bob: Most models are "U" - beautiful - not socially attractive. Learn to play
  the role of model. Not all - especially ones who move on to be actors.
Can be scruffy little kids (especially boys) - women want to pick them up
  cuddle - they are "A". Something advertises - something to me you will like.

Greta Garbo classic IA - doesn't want the attention.

EA works well - problem is getting them to sit down and do something.